Honorifics & Register
तुम (Casual 'you')
The casual way to say 'you' — use with friends, younger people, equals
Example
तुम कैसे हो?
How are you? (informal)
Usage Notes
तुम also takes plural verb forms: तुम कैसे हो (not तुम कैसा है). Only तू takes singular verbs.
Most conversations between people of similar age use तुम. It's the default for casual friendliness.
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Related — Honorifics & Register
आप (Formal 'you')
The polite/respectful way to say 'you' — use with elders, strangers, professionals
तू (Intimate 'you')
Very close or rude 'you' — only for best friends, children, or God. Can be offensive!
-जी (Respectful)
Added after names to show respect — like saying 'Mr.' or 'Sir'
-साहब (Sir)
A respectful title added after names — like 'Sir' or 'Mr.'